As well as being the the founder of XOAliMortimer brand, I am a mum to two teenage boys, wife to James, dog walker to a crazy little spaniel, property developer & luxury holiday home owner, a Human Design Generator with a sacral authority with more energy and creativity than I sometimes know what to do with.
I love to work with minds, hearts, and souls with tangible strategies for our human life and transcend in to the spiritual so our souls get to guide us in how we experience our lives.
My first career, I was an IT consultant in the retail industry for Accenture - one of the leading multi-national professional companies in IT and consulting services. On leaving London to move to Yorkshire to start a family, I made the move in to industry where I lead a global team to change the way in which online platforms were updated in the digital age. When the juggle of motherhood & career progression took it's toll on my health, the guilt and reminder of my dream of being a present mum became too much, I took the brave decision to leave my big title, big pay cheque to live a big happy life.
From Breakdown, to Break Through; the Rising & the Miracle!
I am currently living a life of pure happiness & living out my personal definition of success: loving what I do, loving who I do life with and loving who I am in the process. But it hasn't always been this way; wind back to 2016 and you would see a very different picture of my life.
I believe we are all in control of our own lives and our own destiny. I believe that all storms in life come to clear our path to more peace & happiness rather than destroy or disturb it. I believe that we can experience a breakdown, that leads us to breakthrough, grow stronger, rise up and lead us to something that we never thought was possible - in other words a miracle!
I believe all this, because this has been my story many times over in a short period of time and so many areas of my life, my career, in relationships and in health.
I broke down my beliefs about being a working woman & mother and left a 'high flying' career & burnout in favour of motherhood, family, health & adventure. I broke through my own perceptions, limitations and tried, failed, learnt & grew my way through freelancing, MLM, entrepreneurship online, in corporate & in property development. I created a new identity & a way of life that is fulfilling and supports me emotionally, mentally, spiritually and financially.
I broke down my beliefs and thoughts about life, love & relationships as I lost my Mum twice once to Alzheimer’s and then very suddenly to pneumonia. I broke even further when my respect, trust & faith in people, my community, myself when my marriage was seemingly irreparably damaged. But this experience gave me the opportunity to heal myself to a strength that enabled me the breakthrough to love myself first and that enabled me to rise up and meet a miracle as I turned all my fears, one by one, to love.
My health broke down when I was diagnosed with clinical depression, to PTSD, insomnia and eating disorders. I refused drugs offered that would numb me, not only from my pain, but also from life. Instead I worked with to coaches, therapists and alternative and holistic therapists who taught me how to heal and the techniques enabled me to breakthrough & create the most beautiful life.
I now live a life I have purposefully created since 2017 which is centred all around love which brings me so much happiness & peace; love for myself, love for all the people in my life and love with what I do and how I do it.
I continue to break down, breakthrough & rise again to meet more miracles every step of the way. And I believe you can too.
It all starts with you and your decision to believe the same.
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