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Love & Relationships

Love who you are with

In a society where loneliness is one of the biggest 'killers' of happiness & health, love, connection, belonging and community is a foundation for living & loving our life.

What is life if we have no love, no one to share it with? I learnt the hard way. I lost love in all areas of my life, love for myself, love for who I was living with, love for who I was working with and for. I believe that love is at the heart of living & loving a fulfilling life, a joy filled life. It is with love that I have healed the relationship with myself, my reflection & healed from body dysmorphia. It is with love, compassion & forgiveness that I have healed a marriage that lost its way. It is with love, trust & non judgement that has become the glue for all relationships, partnerships and friendships in my life. It is with this circle of love & strong bonds that I have been able to live fully & love freely and embrace life again.

Our most significant relationships are a reflection of the ones we have with ourself. This is where we start - for to love ourselves is to show others how to love us too.

Alex

Ali's story resonated with me when I read about her own loss with her Mum and her heartbreak too. The words she wrote in one of her blogs on her website inspired me so much... I too wanted to overcome the hurdles I was facing in my marriage and in my life. Before I met Ali, I felt like I was in a bottomless pit. Today I am sat here feeling happy, grateful for all the good things in my life and the things that are yet to come. I am changing career, my marriage is on the road to recovery and I am happier in myself. I have so much praise for Ali and I will be forever grateful for her support and guidance during such a tough time in my life.